Khutbah: Al-Qalbu \u2013 Berteman<\/title>\n <meta name=\"viewport\" content=\"width=device-width, initial-scale=1\" \/>\n <style>\n body {\n font-family: \"Segoe UI\", Arial, sans-serif;\n line-height: 1.7;\n color: #333;\n max-width: 800px;\n margin: 2rem auto;\n padding: 1rem;\n background-color: #f8f9fa;\n }\n h1, h2, h3 {\n color: #2c3e50;\n }\n h1 {\n text-align: center;\n border-bottom: 2px solid #0b51b7;\n padding-bottom: 0.5rem;\n }\n .ayat, .hadits {\n font-style: italic;\n color: #2c3e50;\n margin: 0.8rem 0;\n padding: 0.6rem 1rem;\n background-color: #e8f4fd;\n border-left: 4px solid #0b51b7;\n }\n .arabic {\n font-family: \"Amiri\", \"Scheherazade New\", serif;\n font-size: 1.3rem;\n text-align: right;\n direction: rtl;\n }\n .latin {\n margin-top: 0.2rem;\n font-size: 0.95rem;\n color: #444;\n }\n .footnote {\n font-size: 0.85rem;\n color: #666;\n font-style: normal;\n }\n ul {\n margin: 0.6rem 0;\n padding-left: 1.5rem;\n }\n li {\n margin-bottom: 0.4rem;\n }\n .section {\n margin-bottom: 1.5rem;\n }\n <\/style>\n<\/head>\n<body>\n\n <h1>KHUTBAH: 260327 \u2013 Al\u2011Qalbu<\/h1>\n\n <h2>\u201cBerteman\u201d<\/h2>\n\n <div class=\"hadits\">\n <p class=\"arabic\">\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0621 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u062f\u064a\u0646 \u062e\u0644\u064a\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u0644\u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0623\u062d\u062f\u0643\u0645 \u0645\u0646 \u064a\u062e\u0627\u0644\u0644\u00bb<\/p>\n <p class=\"latin\">\u201cSeseorang itu menurut agama teman akrabnya, maka hendaklah salah seorang di antara kalian memperhatikan siapa yang akan ia jadikan teman akrab.\u201d<\/p>\n <p class=\"footnote\">Hadits shahih, diriwayatkan oleh at\u2011Tirmidzi dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu \u2018anhu, dan beliau berkata: \u201cHadits hasan shahih\u201d. Dinilai shahih pula oleh al\u2011Hakim dan Ibnu Baz.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <h3>Lima Kepribadian Dasar (Imam al\u2011Ghazali)<\/h3>\n <div class=\"section\">\n <ul>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0642\u0644 (akal):<\/strong> Pilihlah teman yang memiliki akal yang sehat. Karena orang bodoh bisa memberi mudarat, walau berniat baik. Musuh yang cerdas lebih baik daripada teman yang bodoh.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u062d\u0633\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062e\u0644\u0642 (adab dan akhlak baik):<\/strong> Pilih orang yang mampu menguasai dirinya ketika marah atau tergoda syahwat, bukan yang mudah kehilangan kendali.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0644\u0627\u062d (kesalehan):<\/strong> Pilih teman yang menjauhi dosa-dosa besar dan takut kepada Allah. Karena orang fasik tidak bisa dijamin kebaikan dan akhlaknya.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0635\u062f\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0633\u0627\u0646 (kejujuran):<\/strong> Pilih orang yang tidak suka berbohong atau menipu. Karena pendusta akan mengkhianati kedekatan dan kepercayaan.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0642\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0645\u0639 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0646\u064a\u0627 (tawadhu\u2019 dari dunia):<\/strong> Pilih orang yang tidak tamak terhadap harta, tidak berlomba-lomba mengejar dunia sampai mengorbankan agama.<\/li>\n <\/ul>\n <\/div>\n\n <h3>Nasihat Nabi tentang Teman dan Tetangga<\/h3>\n <div class=\"hadits\">\n <p class=\"arabic\">\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064f \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u062f\u064e\u0651\u0627\u0631\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0631\u064e\u0651\u0641\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064f \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0637\u064e\u0651\u0631\u0650\u064a\u0642\u0650\u00bb<\/p>\n <p class=\"latin\">\u201cTetangga mendahului rumah, dan teman perjalanan mendahului jalannya.\u201d<\/p>\n <p class=\"footnote\">Diriwayatkan oleh ath\u2011Thabrani, hadits ini dihukumi hasan.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <h2>Hak\u2011Hak Tetangga dalam Islam<\/h2>\n\n <div class=\"section\">\n <ul>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0625\u062d\u0633\u0627\u0646 (berbuat baik):<\/strong> Membagikan makanan, membantu kesulitan, dan tidak menutup pintu atau menolak bantuan saat mereka membutuhkan.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0639\u062f\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u064a\u0630\u0627\u0621 (tidak menyakiti):<\/strong> Rasulullah \ufdfa bersabda: \u00ab\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0644\u064e\u0651\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0622\u062e\u0650\u0631\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0630\u0650 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064e\u0647\u064f\u00bb (\u201cBarangsiapa beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhir, maka janganlah ia menyakiti tetangganya.\u201d) <span class=\"footnote\">Hadits mauttafaq \u2018alaih dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu \u2018anhu.<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u062c\u0627\u0631 \u0630\u0648 \u0627\u0644\u0642\u0631\u0628\u0649 (tetangga yang juga kerabat):<\/strong> Mereka memiliki hak ganda, yaitu hak sebagai tetangga dan hak sebagai kerabat: harus disambung silaturahmi, dibantu, dan diperlakukan dengan kasih sayang.<\/li>\n <\/ul>\n <\/div>\n\n <h3>Fitrat Manusia<\/h3>\n <div class=\"hadits\">\n <p class=\"arabic\">\u00ab\u0643\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0651 \u0645\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064d \u064a\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e\u062f\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0641\u0650\u0637\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0629\u0650\u060c \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u064a\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0648\u0650\u0651\u062f\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0635\u0650\u0651\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0645\u064e\u062c\u0650\u0651\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650\u00bb<\/p>\n <p class=\"footnote\">Hadits shahih, mauttafaq \u2018alaih, diriwayatkan oleh al\u2011Bukhari (1358) dan Muslim (2658) dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu \u2018anhu.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n<\/body>\n<\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Khutbah: Al-Qalbu \u2013 Berteman KHUTBAH: 260327 \u2013 Al\u2011Qalbu \u201cBerteman\u201d \u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0621 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u062f\u064a\u0646 \u062e\u0644\u064a\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u0644\u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0623\u062d\u062f\u0643\u0645 \u0645\u0646 \u064a\u062e\u0627\u0644\u0644\u00bb \u201cSeseorang itu menurut agama teman akrabnya, 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{"id":930,"date":"2026-03-27T09:36:52","date_gmt":"2026-03-27T02:36:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/syaifuddin.online-mr.com\/?p=930"},"modified":"2026-03-27T09:37:53","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T02:37:53","slug":"berteman-dalam-islam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/syaifuddin.online-mr.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/27\/berteman-dalam-islam\/","title":{"rendered":"Berteman dalam Islam"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n\n \n Khutbah: Al-Qalbu \u2013 Berteman<\/title>\n <meta name=\"viewport\" content=\"width=device-width, initial-scale=1\" \/>\n <style>\n body {\n font-family: \"Segoe UI\", Arial, sans-serif;\n line-height: 1.7;\n color: #333;\n max-width: 800px;\n margin: 2rem auto;\n padding: 1rem;\n background-color: #f8f9fa;\n }\n h1, h2, h3 {\n color: #2c3e50;\n }\n h1 {\n text-align: center;\n border-bottom: 2px solid #0b51b7;\n padding-bottom: 0.5rem;\n }\n .ayat, .hadits {\n font-style: italic;\n color: #2c3e50;\n margin: 0.8rem 0;\n padding: 0.6rem 1rem;\n background-color: #e8f4fd;\n border-left: 4px solid #0b51b7;\n }\n .arabic {\n font-family: \"Amiri\", \"Scheherazade New\", serif;\n font-size: 1.3rem;\n text-align: right;\n direction: rtl;\n }\n .latin {\n margin-top: 0.2rem;\n font-size: 0.95rem;\n color: #444;\n }\n .footnote {\n font-size: 0.85rem;\n color: #666;\n font-style: normal;\n }\n ul {\n margin: 0.6rem 0;\n padding-left: 1.5rem;\n }\n li {\n margin-bottom: 0.4rem;\n }\n .section {\n margin-bottom: 1.5rem;\n }\n <\/style>\n<\/head>\n<body>\n\n <h1>KHUTBAH: 260327 \u2013 Al\u2011Qalbu<\/h1>\n\n <h2>\u201cBerteman\u201d<\/h2>\n\n <div class=\"hadits\">\n <p class=\"arabic\">\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0621 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u062f\u064a\u0646 \u062e\u0644\u064a\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u0644\u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0623\u062d\u062f\u0643\u0645 \u0645\u0646 \u064a\u062e\u0627\u0644\u0644\u00bb<\/p>\n <p class=\"latin\">\u201cSeseorang itu menurut agama teman akrabnya, maka hendaklah salah seorang di antara kalian memperhatikan siapa yang akan ia jadikan teman akrab.\u201d<\/p>\n <p class=\"footnote\">Hadits shahih, diriwayatkan oleh at\u2011Tirmidzi dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu \u2018anhu, dan beliau berkata: \u201cHadits hasan shahih\u201d. Dinilai shahih pula oleh al\u2011Hakim dan Ibnu Baz.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <h3>Lima Kepribadian Dasar (Imam al\u2011Ghazali)<\/h3>\n <div class=\"section\">\n <ul>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0642\u0644 (akal):<\/strong> Pilihlah teman yang memiliki akal yang sehat. Karena orang bodoh bisa memberi mudarat, walau berniat baik. Musuh yang cerdas lebih baik daripada teman yang bodoh.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u062d\u0633\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062e\u0644\u0642 (adab dan akhlak baik):<\/strong> Pilih orang yang mampu menguasai dirinya ketika marah atau tergoda syahwat, bukan yang mudah kehilangan kendali.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0644\u0627\u062d (kesalehan):<\/strong> Pilih teman yang menjauhi dosa-dosa besar dan takut kepada Allah. Karena orang fasik tidak bisa dijamin kebaikan dan akhlaknya.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0635\u062f\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0633\u0627\u0646 (kejujuran):<\/strong> Pilih orang yang tidak suka berbohong atau menipu. Karena pendusta akan mengkhianati kedekatan dan kepercayaan.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0642\u0644\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0645\u0639 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0646\u064a\u0627 (tawadhu\u2019 dari dunia):<\/strong> Pilih orang yang tidak tamak terhadap harta, tidak berlomba-lomba mengejar dunia sampai mengorbankan agama.<\/li>\n <\/ul>\n <\/div>\n\n <h3>Nasihat Nabi tentang Teman dan Tetangga<\/h3>\n <div class=\"hadits\">\n <p class=\"arabic\">\u00ab\u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064f \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u062f\u064e\u0651\u0627\u0631\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0631\u064e\u0651\u0641\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064f \u0642\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0637\u064e\u0651\u0631\u0650\u064a\u0642\u0650\u00bb<\/p>\n <p class=\"latin\">\u201cTetangga mendahului rumah, dan teman perjalanan mendahului jalannya.\u201d<\/p>\n <p class=\"footnote\">Diriwayatkan oleh ath\u2011Thabrani, hadits ini dihukumi hasan.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <h2>Hak\u2011Hak Tetangga dalam Islam<\/h2>\n\n <div class=\"section\">\n <ul>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u0625\u062d\u0633\u0627\u0646 (berbuat baik):<\/strong> Membagikan makanan, membantu kesulitan, dan tidak menutup pintu atau menolak bantuan saat mereka membutuhkan.<\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0639\u062f\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u064a\u0630\u0627\u0621 (tidak menyakiti):<\/strong> Rasulullah \ufdfa bersabda: \u00ab\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0644\u064e\u0651\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0622\u062e\u0650\u0631\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0630\u0650 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064e\u0647\u064f\u00bb (\u201cBarangsiapa beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhir, maka janganlah ia menyakiti tetangganya.\u201d) <span class=\"footnote\">Hadits mauttafaq \u2018alaih dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu \u2018anhu.<\/span><\/li>\n <li><strong>\u0627\u0644\u062c\u0627\u0631 \u0630\u0648 \u0627\u0644\u0642\u0631\u0628\u0649 (tetangga yang juga kerabat):<\/strong> Mereka memiliki hak ganda, yaitu hak sebagai tetangga dan hak sebagai kerabat: harus disambung silaturahmi, dibantu, dan diperlakukan dengan kasih sayang.<\/li>\n <\/ul>\n <\/div>\n\n <h3>Fitrat Manusia<\/h3>\n <div class=\"hadits\">\n <p class=\"arabic\">\u00ab\u0643\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0651 \u0645\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064d \u064a\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e\u062f\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0641\u0650\u0637\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0629\u0650\u060c \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u064a\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0648\u0650\u0651\u062f\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0635\u0650\u0651\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652 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